Dear Readers, I am taking a class right now that implores that you “be curious and be patient with yourself and others”
It occurred to me this is excellent life advice. Think about it. If you are curious, you are always learning. If you are patient, you lower your heart rate and your level of stress.
For instance, if you have a bad day or are stressed out about how you did at work, you can take the stance of being curious to figure out what you need to do to improve things. Instead of judging yourself for the difficulty, you can be patient with yourself as you learn about what needs to change.
On a personal note, in the last two weeks, I have gained almost 10 pounds due to an excess of eating foods not on our paleo diet. As my nurse friend pointed out, its easy to pack on the pounds when you go off such a strict diet. In the past, I would have shamed myself and tried to hide it or make excuses or feel guilty but now, with the advent of this advice, I am finding myself to be more patient with myself and forgiving the cheating and have a renewed vigor to resume the lifestyle choice of paleo, and give myself some grace for the past. To be clear, this is not license to continue the cheating, this is an acknowledgment that this is something I am still working on, just like the rest of life, we are all evolving and moving to whatever our next level is going to be. So I implore you, be curious and be patient. The results will surprise you. Think about it!
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thanks for your honesty in this post jennifer! i sometimes have the ‘all or nothing’ thinking when it comes to overindulging and then beating myself up over it. i appreciate what you say about acknowledging it and then getting back on track. so important to be kind to ourselves (and of course others). good work!
You are welcome, Chelsea! I know with all the traveling you are doing, its got to be hard to stick to a routine but I also know that is sometimes the difference between sanity and chaos. Thanks for your comment!